Wanting to explore bondage but don’t know where to start? We know the world of Bondage can be complicated to know where to begin but we’re here to help!
Navigating bondage products can be tricky but restraint is a great place to start. Restraint explores the dynamic of power, control and above all trust in the relationship, but if for a beginner, diving in with hardcore leather cuffs can be a little overwhelming. Look for something softer to start, Like these sensuous sating cuffs and blindfold from Playful Promises. A blindfold is a sure-fire way to explore some sensory deprivation, helping your lover to focus on the sensations and submit themselves fully to you and the experience. The cuffs are a softer approach to easing yourself or your partner into fully exploring the idea of submission and power play, allowing the other party to tease the senses whilst the other can’t resist.
A feather tickler can be another great way to explore sensations and physical touch. This Noir Black soft feather tickler works as an erotic tease for the mind to cases your lovers skin as you run it up and down their body to heighten their sensitivity. The tickler is all about beginning to stimulate the senses to build up to more intense erotic sensations, allowing your partner to feel every touch and spank more intensely. A sexy accessory to both use and experience an unforgettable tease.
This Coco De Mer small leather flogger is another perfect edition to the beginner’s bondage starter kit. It may look intimidating at first but the flogger is a perfect starting point to explore impact play, outside of spanking. The leather is soft and versatile, and you can begin by running the flogger up and down the body, like the feather tickler for a new erotic sensation. If you and your partner feel comfortable you can move on to some light spanking and whipping, ensuring to focus mostly on the buttocks and upper thighs for a heavier play session. Perfect for any couple wanting to explore submission and domination!
A Spanking paddle is a great edition to any beginner’s bondage starter kit. This Regalia spanking paddle with its smooth leather hand feel is the perfect BDSM accessory to get things hot and steamy! If you enjoy spanking a paddle is essential to leave a rosy heart shaped mark of passion. Spanking is the perfect kink to explore the dynamic of pleasure and pain with consent. When using with your lover, ensure you are both aware of your pain limits, turn ons and safe word!
Latex can also be a key element to adding some spice into your BSDM starter kit. Start with something simple like the Imogen black latex and ring collar. Lingerie or latex with a sturdy ring can come in handy when accessorising and attaching other restraint items such as a lead or cuffs to one another. Explore the dynamic or control with this sexy accessory, the glossy latex choker will draw in your lover for more.
